A Dater's Life

Monday, May 05, 2008

Falling

Falling

Over the edge

And it's scaring the crap out of me...

At 9:10 AM, Cooks said...: falling in love?! let it happen, it's grand!
At 9:29 AM, Karen said...: While you're spending all that time being freaked out, don't forget to enjoy yourself. I know it's scary, terrifying, awful in some ways, this part is supposed to be FUN! And take comfort in the fact that he's probably just as scared as you are.
At 9:31 AM, Karen said...: Oh, and I keep forgetting to tell you....I JUST found that PM from you about when I was in San Francicso. I wasn't checking that site back then at all. I'm so disappointed as I totally would have loved to catch up with you and finally meet you in person!
At 9:51 AM, TessaJ said...: I think the reason it's so scary is because we've consciously decided to take things slowly (for a variety of reasons, most of which I haven't blogged about -- in short, we have some past wounds we're still working on (see "Therapy Guy" for an example) and we're working on these things individually instead of bringing them into our interaction). So I'm worried that my heart is getting one step ahead of where we're at in the relationship.
At 5:48 PM, Karen said...: That's fair....and you don't want to get ahead of where you're at or where he's at. But, you can't really control how you feel, even if you say you're going to try. Just be easy on yourself and try to be patient with your heart.