Dating in Triplicate -- the first glitch

You go out with someone you like. You have a really good first date.

You meet up, just for drinks, and wind up practically closing the bar several hours later.

He holds your hand.

You make out by your car.

He e-mails the next day to set up the second "mystery date" (oh, I am such a sucker for the mystery date).

What's a dating in triplicate gal to do?

Immediately contact Bachelor #1, of course. We didn't spark as much as Bachelor #2 and I did, but we did have a fun evening, another good first date.

Remember that Dating in Triplicate is NOT about being a player. It's about taking your time and not putting your eggs in one basket (pardon the cliche) too soon. It's about keeping a level head and not closing your options just because you feel the stomach flip. It's about dating with both your head and your heart, it's about dating smart.