A New Space

It has been awhile, hasn't it? I'd like to report that I've been spending the past couple of months having wild sex in a wild jungle with a wild man....



But that would be a lie.



No, I've been in a state of not-dating. Or perhaps I should call it non-dating. Or simply dating myself. For awhile, I was worried that I had reverted back to a state of bitterness and cynicism, but in the last few days I've realized that I've arrived at a place of post-cynicism. I'm not cynical. I'm not bitter. I'm actually quite content with things the way they are.



For the first time, I'm fully embracing not dating. Not even trying to date. I've been enjoying hanging out with friends, having dinner parties, hanging out solo, nesting. They say that when you arrive at this space, that's when you meet someone. But in my case, I tend to disagree.